Fan. Friend. Follower.

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Fan/Friend/Follower

Lesson 1: Fan

March 12 & 13, 2016

Likeable people love people

Likability study conducted at UCLA concluded

• Likability is not inherent
• Likability has nothing to do with being attractive, super social, or talented
• Likability is a result of learned Emotional Intelligence

Matthews 5:14 “Here’s another way to put it: You’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. 15 If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light stand. 16 Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—shine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By opening up to others, you’ll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in heaven. Message Bible

5 Traits of Likable People

1. Likeable people are positive
2. Likeable people smile a lot
3. Likeable people listen
4. Likable people display empathy
5. Likable people aren’t judgmental

People who were nothing like Jesus liked Jesus

1 Corinthians 8:1 Now about food sacrificed to idols: We know that “We all possess knowledge.” But knowledge puffs up while love builds up. 2 Those who think they know something do not yet know as they ought to know. New International Version

1 Corinthians 9:22 …Yes, whatever a person is like, I try to find common ground with him so that he will let me tell him about Christ and let Christ save him. The Living Bible

1 Corinthians 9:23 I do this to get the Gospel to them and also for the blessing I myself receive when I see them come to Christ. The Living Bible

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